His Love in Our Perfection

After almost 6 years in Muslim countries, I am still learning new things all the time about culture and habits of the people.  In our recent search for a new home, it was finally pointed out to me why in EVERY home you will find a tile placed upside down in a pattern or a different colored tile laid in the flooring.  I have always assumed it was poor craftsmanship.  However, it is done on purpose.  Their saying is "Only Allah is perfect."  In other words, it is not that they cannot do something "perfect" it is that they WILL NOT because they do not want to take any of Allah's glory.

 

My first thoughts were, "How noble!  Why is it that as followers of Jehovah God we place an importance on being perfect?  Are we disrespecting God?"

 

Christ tells us in the Sermon on the Mount, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied." (Matthew 5:6)  He is instructing us to have a deep desire in all the things of this earth to seek God.  In this we will find fulfillment.  Just before this instruction He sums up what He had been sharing by saying, "You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect." (Matthew 5:48) 

 

So what does this mean?  Is Jesus setting us up to offend our Heavenly Father? 

 

No, He is not.  This is yet another picture for us to learn and marvel in the great love of our Lord.  Perfection is not something that can be obtained by ourselves.  We all know that, yet it is our sinful hearts that crave the praise and attention of being our own masters in certain areas of our lives.  The perfection that Christ is teaching is one gained through His redemption and sanctification.  It is obtained through the process of dependence, faith, and a daily walk with the Lord.  

 

Our Heavenly Father desires a personal relationship with us.  He wants our perfection for His glory.  We do not take God's glory or disrespect Him when we are working for His Kingdom purposes.  He takes great delight in working through us.  Paul instructs us in Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men."

 

I am humbled that the God of all creation desires to show His perfection and awesome power through His children.  Let us strive to live in a way that shows the world that Jehovah, the Lord Almighty, loves us to perfection.  He is faithful and will never give up on us.         

 

Marriage - Saving the Best Until Last

When Matt and I were in pre-marital counseling, our mentor gave us an example that shaped our view on taking care of our marriage relationship.   He said that marriage is like a garden.  You only get out of it what you put in; you must take time to pull the weeds; when you stop working on it, it will no longer produce; etc. etc. with the analogies.  It may seem silly, but we took it as solid advice and a very practical measuring stick for us to come back to over the years.

Every Friday we travel up to the northern most Emirate to attend a new church start.  On the way up, we pass a house on top of a sand dune in the middle of the dessert.  Over the past 2 years we have watched the family consistently seed, water, and care for their property.  Now, after all their effort, time and expense, the entire "hill" is green.  It is like an oasis stop in the middle of their brown world.  It is a marvel really...a wonderful "feat" to have accomplished.  Today, our question for them is, "Now what?"  Will they continue to keep it green or will they grow weary of the process?

Here is a portion of a devotional that I read recently: 

John 2:9-10 says, "Then he called the bridegroom aside and said, 'Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now.'"  

The excitement of a wedding gets marriages started off on the right foot.  Through the honeymoon stage, it's all love and kisses.  But not even the best of marriages can maintain that high note.  There are peaks and valleys, good times and hard times, the highest of highs and difficult, daunting challenges far greater than ever imagined.  What to do , then, when the wine of love runs out?  Perhaps the best advice comes from what Mary said to the servants:  "Do whatever he (Jesus) tells you."  How could any couple possibly do better than that?  And the reward?  As virtually all married couples can attest, through good times and bad the Master of miracles saves the very best till last.

F. LaGard Smith The Daily Bible Devotional Book

I have never looked at the story of Jesus changing the water to wine in respect to what a long faithful, fruitful marriage should look like.  It just seemed to be about the wedding and how amazing Jesus is.  However, it would seem there is truly more to take away.  If in our marriages we take the advice of Mary and "do whatever Jesus tells us", WOW the power and fruit that will come of them.

Matt and I can testify that our garden of marriage is more abundant now than it was 18 years ago.  We can also share that pulling weeds and watering is a lot of work and sometimes seems exhausting in difficult circumstances.   However, what a beautiful reward to be able to sit in our "retirement home" one day and drink of the wine produced from the grapes of a well tended garden.  

May we endeavor to keep the grass green as we look to Christ to show us where we need to grow in our rolls as husband and wife.

Happy Valentine's Day!  AT

PS:  On a silly note:  I think this is funny!

 

Just Sitting is O.K.

Well the move is over.  That is not to say that there is not a list a mile long of things that need to be done, fixed, replaced, etc.  I am just taking joy in the fact that all the boxes are out of the house and everything has found a new "spot" to take up residence. (even if that "spot" is a pile in a comer with other "like items")

One of the great things about our new place, is the fact that it has a room that we have been able to make into a bedroom for the babies.  It has been great having them in with Matt and I for the past 8 months.  I think it has helped with bonding and with all the transitions; however, they are at a good place emotionally to have their own space.  One thing is for sure, their "stuff" needs to find its own "home". 

It is amazing how much one can collect in such a short period of time!  We have even been purposeful in trying to keep things at a "need" only in-take, but things have worked their way in anyway.  (point aside - we do feel so blessed in how much others have given to help us!!)

As I sat on the floor trying to sort through and organize the nursery, I had to keep taking someone off my lap and giving them a toy.  I was beginning to get frustrated when I stopped and looked into Micah's eyes.  I almost cried at what I read in them.  He didn't want the toys.  He wanted ME!  I have been so busy with other things - though important and needed jobs - that I hadn't taken many opportunities to just rock and hold anyone.

We can give our kids all sorts of things from electronics to puzzles, but in the end, from our teens to our toddlers, all they really want is us = uninterrupted, focused TIME!

How true is that even in our relationship with our heavenly Father!  We have Bible apps and Christian movies; devotionals; commentaries; topical books; online lessons; study groups; fellowships and meetings with other Believers...but one of the most critical things is being alone with Him.  NOT with our "toys" - but just sitting in His lap. 

I read a funny ditty the other day.  It said, "If you want to hear from God, read His Word.  If you want to hear audibly from God, read His Word out-loud!" 

I do believe that God speaks in other ways.  He has in my life.  However, it is so important that we simply spend regular time "curled up" in the lap of His Word.  He is speaking to us, guiding us, comforting us, instructing us, etc.

So despite what all the "health nuts" and personal trainers are telling us....Just sitting is O.K.  In fact it is quite beneficial to us in so many ways. 

AT  

 

Pitching Our Tent

January for many we know is the month for ski trips and layered clothing or resigning themselves to indoor sports.  For us in the UAE, this is the time to get out...check out the parks, have picnics, go for a walk, etc.

I don't claim to be one that likes the "great outdoors".  I am not the hiker, mountain climber, roughing it type.  As a general rule I fall into the sunscreen/mosquito spray wearing must have a fan and a soft bed type.  However, I will admit that some of my best memories over the years have been made "in the woods" with dear friends and time alone with my Savior!   

While we were still in the States, our friends the Fishers first exposed us to the fun of camping.  For several years in a row we accompanied them over Memorial weekend to out -of-the-way spots in Texas and Oklahoma where we set up camp and enjoyed the wiles of the outdoors.  They were excellent teachers with instructions on what to pack, cooking over an open fire, and most importantly how and where to pitch our tent.  The first year they arrived before us, carefully clearing our spot and helping with our tent.  The next year we worked together to find a spot, clear the twigs and debris, and erect the tents.  Then it was time for us to arrive early and make the preparations the following year. 

Who would have thought that these lessons would have been something that we would carry with us overseas?  However, we discovered that one of the things that the Believers of East Turkey like to do each year is take a week to get away together and camp somewhere.  The first year we went, we were so grateful that we could at least pitch a tent.  Our language skills were limited and having our "dwelling" up was essential for shade in 100+ degree weather.  The next year we were able to help "newbies" more and begin the process of passing on our "wisdom of the woods". 

Now we find ourselves in a new situation:  camping without the forest.  Dessert camping is bringing a whole different learning curve and skill set into our lives.  Pitching our tent is more about finding a sand dune that will provide shade and wind protection rather than clearing the ground from twigs and watching out for tree roots.

However the process of learning, training, and discipling is going much the same. 

In Genesis 12 we read of Abraham stopping to pitch the family tent.  If you remember the Lord had just called him out on his journey of faith.  "And he removed from there to a mountain on the east of Bethel, and pitched his tent, having Bethel on the west, and Hai on the east: and there he built an altar to the LORD, and called on the name of the LORD." Genesis 12:8

The situation of Abram’s tent between Bethel and Ai must have commanded a view of the valley of the Jordan and of the Dead Sea, with the mountains of Moab.  Abram made open profession of his faith, and worshipped with his household at an altar dedicated to Jehovah. 

When I "get over my girlie self" and head out to camp in God's beautiful creation, the thing I LOVE is having a time of worship.  There is just something so special about a camp fire, the night sky, and songs of praise!  How truly grateful I am for family and friends that come alongside us and help us  experience new things and see God in a whole new way.  What a blessing it is to be able to break away from the routine of life, head out to a new place, pitch our tent, and praise God.

Where will we pitch our tents this year?  Yes, finding that spot to physically pitch a tent is fun and memories in the making.  However, WHO am I pitching tents with this year is a more important question.  Do I have people in my life that I am working to share with, teach, and train?  Let us all work together to show someone (disciple someone) in learning more about the Father.  What if we all just invested in one person for 2015; what would the world look like? 

AT 

Awakening of the Heart - Let 2015 Begin!

The new year is always a time of reflection and resolutions.  While our family has several for 2015, our focus remains the same = Be Broken For The Lost!

This time last year our world was being turned upside down with the news that our adoption facilitator had betrayed us and ultimately the result of that would be the loss of our daughter Hope.  At the beginning of the Spring our family had to move to Ethiopia to make sure that we were able to complete the adoption of Micah and Joy.  However, in an effort to try and straighten things out upon the first realization of deceit, I dropped everything and flew into country. 

I remember my first night in my room alone after a very difficult day of confrontation with our facilitator and the orphan home administrator.  I tossed and turned and cried out to God for my babies.  "Lord, we want these babies."  "Lord, save these children."  "Lord, please let them join our family." 

Yes, the Father cares for the broken hearted, and believe me I was broken!  He gave me great comfort in my hour of need.  However, He is also a Father who knows what is best for ALL His children.  What I needed most at that time was a good slap of truth and perspective!  His ways and purposes are above mine.  As I physically cried and shook from complete sorrow, I heard the Lord ask me, "Matt, why are you not this passionate in prayer over all of those that are not in my family? Why do you not cry out to Me for all those around you that do not yet know ME as Father?" 

WOW, talk about a reality check!  How often am I living for this world; living for the things that seem important in the here and now.  Yes, God the Father cares for the orphans.  Yes, HE was leading us to open our home and expand our earthly family.  However, His plan and desires are much bigger and include many more than my humble family!

So just as in 2014, 2015 is going to be the year that the Travis family says, "Yes, Lord send me."  Open my eyes Father to those around me.  Give me a great love and burning desire to share You and the awesome privilege it is to be called your son. 

Who do you know that is going to be welcomed to the family of God this year? 

MT             
 

A New Sound

It is with a weary and sad heart that I announce that our family will be moving yet again.  Due to circumstances out of our control (but not out of HIS) we will be leaving our beloved apartment on the beach.  Over the Christmas holidays we (mostly my dear sweet husband) have looked at close to 50 houses.  Since we have to leave what we think is the best location in our Emirate, we have decided to take the plunge and move into a "neighborhood" rather than another apartment building.  For a whole host of reasons, it will be the best thing for our family.  (not sure about our wallets...just doing what HE is calling us to do and trusting HIM with the details.)  We will be located a few blocks back from the water now in a small townhome community.

Today as I sat with my big kids at the beach and reflected over the year and this upcoming change, I was overwhelmed with the roar of the waves.  Somehow over the past 2 years I have started to take for granted their beautiful hum in my ears.  Funny how when you are faced with losing something, you remember how dear it is to you. 

I was also struck with a new thought about the verse, "Pray without ceasing." (1 Thess. 5:17)  So often we think of praying as talking with God.  How can we constantly be talking with God?  I have heard people's opinion on this...reminders of things that prompt us to pray, etc.  However, the main part of praying should be listening.  What if we were so in-tune with Him that He was the roar of the waves in our ears?  What if we stopped praying (listening) and the silence was painfully deafening?

Father, may we stay in constant rhythmical prayer with you.  May your sweet voice be the backdrop of our lives in our new home.  May the "roar" of the ocean of your presence be what surrounds our new home. 

AT

Christmas 2014

As I sat here this morning thinking about what to share, I read my coffee mug.  It says, "Celebrate the Gift of Jesus EVERYDAY".  What a great reminder during this season!  Yes, let us celebrate the coming of Christ.  It is important to take special time to remember Christ's sacrifice in coming to earth.  It is also important to remember that He is our gift EVERYDAY!  He has something new for us each day.  He desires that we spend time unwrapping His Word and feasting on the privilege of being able to be in His presence.  He is Emanuel - God WITH us.  Today and EVERYDAY!  AT

 

The kids are waiting to see what is under the tree! 

TOTAL SURPRISE!

 

 

 

Merry Christmas From Our Family To Yours!!